It is Complicated

Like a good friend said, it is an age-old thing-that in every person's life there is a dramatic affair. Or at least, events that are unjustified though it could have ended in a better note. Though people may come into our lives, some leave footsteps, some don't. And because of that, we are never, ever the same again. Just because some people seem reserved to you doesn't mean that the person's heart is intact, or that he/she has not been through what you have been through. Recent talks with certain friends reveal that.

Some people just like to bump into your life, just like you are happily walking down the street and there the person comes, stopping his car and then asking you to go into the car.
Then when he decided that, oh-you-are-just-my-casual passenger after the roller coaster ride, he decided to let the passenger settle the situation.

After that just when the passenger thought that at least things were like wat she thought, it was the circumstances that dictated otherwise, things had to turn hurtful for her. Chance, indeed, has yet to transform into destiny. Just when things could end friendly, albeit bittersweet, some people just have to take several days to reply a single line. One wonders if the person has to draft every single line and then pick the line which best convey his personality-NEUTRAL (which is a euphemism for i-dun-give-a-damn).

Personally I have met many types of guys in my life and some never fails to impress me with their wen3 shong4-ness (reliability) thoughtfulness ,maturity and gentleman-ness. It is indeed hard, to find guys like michelle's ex who is dai fong enough to be her best friend now.
It is also hard, for a certain 'ah gu gu' to remain friends who sincerely and genuinely care for my girl friend after the break-up. You will be astonished to know that there are people who can act as though nothing has happened and then turn a super cold shoulder to you, there ain't even chance to like be where you were.

So suddenly you find yourself having to juggle this new-found 'status' of 'normal friend relationship'. Because it took so long to be where you 2 are, like the sayings 'friendship is like wine, the older, the better', it is hard to act as though he/she is just your 'hi and bye' friend. You two can no longer chat like buddy on everything under the sun, and forget about the joys and sorrows that you used to share as sincere friends. Notice that we haven't even touched on those sentimental parts-anyway there is no need to.

Yet, some people whose heart may be made of stone can be like that. Just when you want to seal the hard-to-find-soulmate-like friendship since destiny says so, and let the past be in the memory that you can look back and smile at, some people just have to take a sword and poke right through where the scar at the heart is. Saddening indeed. To me it is not only ke3 xi4, it is pure disappointing.

Life is complicated indeed, that is why I always believe that simplicity is the key to happiness (hang fuk). There are so many wonders in this life, so many goals to achieve, so many dreams to catch, so many true friends to dine and sing along with, so many loved ones (family) to be around you. This is indeed, a great blessing. ^_^