He Is Just NOT That Into You

Men are idiots. Most of them anyway.


Before I proceed, mayling ah, is the book with kae shin? or is it still at your house? lol if it is the latter, it means one thing-when you come back the next t ime(will you come back in dec??)I am GOING to your house for stayover. ^_^


Now, based on experiences of all my gf and I, I would like to share some thought with you:


1. You really can judge a guy from his best friends. If his best friends are those who think that it is ok to go out with girls one-one-one just to 'know them better' and sweet talk via smses at the same time to SEVERAL GIRLS, chances are, the guy who is seeing you is like that too. The difference is just the degree. Because logically, birds of the same feather flock together. You do not see me hanging out with people who is a full-tiome clubber or smoker, do you? Nor do you see me with aggresive debaters who can't stop talking and people who like to camp in the library. You see me with interesting, fun people like shin,ling, sara, minghong, kong fui,foong jin..etc..


2. If he has been sweet-talking on smses, yet he tells you 'I only call my hengdais when there is important things to do', the chance is, he is just not that into you. He is a flirt, albeit a 'gentleman, low-profile' one. Come on, if you are really interested in a girl, you will at least call to get to know her better.



3. If he is afraid that his friends and classmates will see you all having lunch at strudels together (a friendly one though), chance are, he is a guy with no balls anyway so why bother getting to know him better? If he has to tell you,' wait till my dad gets me the car, then I take you out', he is some weird guy with some weird thoughts. This is because, I have been out one-one-one with my buddy guy friends and what's wrong with me going there alone? There is NO LAW that states a guy asking a girl out MUST provide her with transport. I never that my guy friends for granted.




4. If he gives you surprises like soft toys, chocolates and encoded article about you, yet he has NEVER utter 'I like you' before, and that the closest mushy stuff he said before is 'You are a special person' or 'You know what? I realise I like talking to you', HE IS NOT TAKING YOU SERIOUSLY. He is taking you as a substitute, a mere back-up, he is doing that with other girls at the same time so that he can enjoy the best of both worlds and have NO COMMITMENT.




5. So what if he smses you at night before he zzz (which means you are the person he thinks of before he zz)?? because he is doing that to the other girl!! His brains is so BIG that he can fit in many girls at the same time. So what if he shares his joy and sorrows with you, it is not a big deal anyway even if he tells you it has been a great basketball game and he blocked a few shots. Because if you, a responsible girl, takes this irresponsible bugger seriously, one fine day, he is going to give you a shrug and said , ' you mean buddy friend can't do that?'



6. If your whole gang goes clubbing, and he get dragged by his friend to the other girl (never mind she is less pretty and elegant than you) *wink to someone*, chance is, no matter how slim the possibility is, there is a rumour going on. This means that you should heed the sign and leave him for good!!




7. If you hear from a gf that this guy has been going out with girls one-one one, no matter how slim you think the chance of him going after that girl is (because everyone is in the same uni and a gang going out for a meal is common), you must still be cautious. You must NOT go on dates with him again and again. Unless he makes it clear he IS interested in you and you alone, my dear girl friends, what's wrong with you?? Leave him!! Every second you are with him is every second lost in meeting your potentials ones. The one who appreciates you and you alone for who you are. ^_^


Edward told me, it takes a bigger loser to like a loser. So make sure you are NOT 'the bigger loser'.